Our life is lead in a pattern. However it is quite easy to find a pattern in math’s than in life. Every day has something new to offer but not every second of each day is good or bad. They all have certain traits and what we feel within ourselves also makes or breaks our day. Like I said our life is followed by a pattern, the pattern of our thought process. If we are happy and fair with our life then we will get happiness and success from it and if are leading life as loser than life will make us one.
To analyze your life and what it has given to you first you have to analyze about yourself, what you have given to life. We get what we sow, the seeds of negativity will lead to unfair life, full of compromises and positivity will bless a person with Uncompromised Life.
Many people spend years in thinking that there life has been unfair with them, that they didn’t got what they deserved or dreamt of but the question is what they have given to their life? They need to change their behavior towards life for having a successful and blissful life. What we think about ourselves have a significant impact on our life, performance and behavior.
A person can live a successful or a satisfied life by introducing some small changes in his routine thought process and attitude towards himself. Some activities are mentioned here that will help an individual to be fair to his life.
Your mirror is your best friend in this process. If you are feeling low or had a bad day then go to your bathroom and meet the person in bathroom mirror. His person is your best friend and critic. Talk with him and try to put smile on your face. You will see that things will improve automatically. Your mirror friend will answer may unanswered questions.
Try to keep your personal relationships intact in the best manner. If you are finding yourself critical every time then you must balance this criticism with positive sayings or some flowers. A healthy relationship is important to keep life smooth and happy.
Quote: “You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” -Eleanor Roosevelt. Follow this famous saying of Mr. Roosevelt and lead your life to positive direction.
Try to humanize your personality and balance the factors of chaos and uncertainty as part of your life. They are part of life and one can’t’ get rid of them but one has to learn how to handle them with positivity. Accepting problems as a part of life is will make things smooth as you only have to worry about resolving issues rather than mourning for their occurrence.
To conclude, life is life a bunch of roses with thorns in it. It depends on you that how you enjoy roses without getting wounded by thorns. So learn from your experience and try to take your life in direction you want.